Just update after a week of worrying we finally had OR interview this morning and everything was fine. just got to wait now to see if we can have early discharge but the worst case senario is it will be 12 months, after years of worry I may be able to sleep at night. thanks for all advice and if I have any updates I will keep posting
Glad to hear everything went OK. 12 months to write off all of your debts isn't too bad so just think that it will be 12 months of BR rather than keep thinking about an ED and it will fly by.
Well done lesley, as others have said dont think about ED cos if it happens then fine but if not its 12 months of not worrying as against many years previous of worry, 12 months will whizz by, good luck.