If I decide to spend my allowance for clothes on something else or one week spend less on groceries so I can have a treat or go out with the bfs children, will the OR 'punish' me by saying it's obvious that I don't need so many groceries / clothes?! Some weeks I don't go food shopping and survive on crisps just so I can enjoy a weekend with the children and be able to take them out somewhere.
I'm just afraid she will turn around to me and say I can afford to cut my allowances :( My or hates me.
Thanks x
Finally got head out of sand in October 2010 BR March 2011
Part of going bankrupt is learning to. Live on a budget without credit and organising yourself effectively. As such they set the amount they take off you and you are free to use what they leave you with as you see fit