I dont actually know why!!! I guess because I still feel bad about the whole thing. I also hate confrontation unless I know I am in the right - and I feel embarrassed about the BR.
Although I now also feel releived we have done it - and nowhere near as bad about it as I did!!!
Your so much like me, i hate to haggle or have confrontations. I have to know that if i am going to have to do that then the information that i am armed with needs to be correct otherwise i just crumble and give in.
You should feel so proud of yourself its great that now you can finally start to reap the rewards and get on with your new life. And i for one would like to say a very big well done and let us know how it all goes :-)
Oh and its ok to Ramble we all do it and i thinkit makes us better people ;-)
Take care my friend
Jo
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Oooh I think maybe I'm too good at negotiating for my own good! Our examiner has made so many mistakes we're starting to challenge almost everything he says! :-O
Strange really from someone who up to the age of 18 didn't even have the confidence to make her own hairdressers or doctors appointment! Tee hee.
Well done Dee. Just imagine if you hadn't challenged this =] !